Current social site is not what I ordered
http://alexanderthecreative.com/Poochie/ . 
Left with custom coding,coloring,layout not my choice.
 I would like popular/familar software that most coders can work with.
includes photo gallery 
 video 
blog
 articles
 forums  
 chat boxes on each profile
Must know what you're doing. No beginners please
Sample sites helpful